Steeped in Love: A Father’s Day Gift Guide for the Quiet Kings

I’ve spent years writing about relationships—romantic, platonic, toxic, intoxicating. But there's one relationship that never seems to get the editorial spread it deserves: the one we have with our fathers. Or father figures. Or those unsung men who showed up, quietly, consistently, and without the need for applause.

And yet, Father’s Day comes tiptoeing in after the high heels and high-drama of Mother’s Day, whispering for attention like the last song on a vinyl record—slow, soulful, and somehow more meaningful in its restraint.

This year, I’m throwing open the parlor doors and giving the dads their moment—in full Upland Tea House fashion. Because the men who raised us, stood behind us, and showed us how to stir honey into our hustle… deserve more than a Hallmark card and a grill apron.

So I brewed a pot of Royal Golden Latte, slipped into my favorite three-piece suit (because nothing says gratitude like menswear in cream tones), and created a gift guide inspired by the men who are always the calm in our storm.

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For the Father Who Told You to Always Write It Down

Pair: Western Cape Rooibos x Montblanc Journal

He wasn’t one for long speeches, but you always remembered what he said. Give him a journal as classic and grounding as the stories he never told aloud. And pair it with a cup of rooibos that tastes like deep roots and quiet wisdom. It's not just a gift. It's a legacy wrapped in leather and tea leaves.

For the Father Who Moves to His Own Rhythm

Pair: Chamomile Mint Rooibos x Vintage Vinyl

He had Miles on the record player and Marvin in his soul. This pairing is for the dad whose silence was the beat—smooth, steady, always cool. Give him the soundtrack of a golden era and a tea that softens the edges like a final note in a jazz solo.

For the Father Who Was Your First Safe Place

Pair: Royal Golden Latte x Lightweight Waffle Robe

When the world frayed at the edges, he was the warm center. Drape him in the kind of robe that feels like a whisper, and pair it with the gold standard of teas. Because true elegance doesn’t shout—it simmers.

I always thought luxury was champagne at brunch or silk pillowcases—but maybe luxury is simpler than that. Maybe it’s honoring the man who told you how to change a tire, balance a checkbook, or walk into a room with your head held high.

This Father’s Day, let’s romanticize the overlooked. Celebrate the quiet kings. And most importantly—serve them tea worthy of their title.

Because the men who steep greatness into our lives?

They deserve a gift that’s steeped in love.

XOXO,

April Sheris